From Manners to Mayhem: Why Respect and Kindness Matter More Than Ever

November 4, 2025

Written By

Beth
In this episode of Lessons from Living, we explore the disappearance of civility in today’s world. From politics to social media to everyday interactions, respect and kindness often seem to be fading.Beth reflects on what civility once looked like, even drawing from classics like Pride and Prejudice, and shares examples of how our language, public discourse, and daily habits have shifted dramatically. More importantly, Beth talks about why civility matters, it isn’t about outdated manners, but about dignity, respect, and the way we choose to treat one another.

This episode offers practical ways we can restore civility in our homes, communities, and conversations. Whether you’ve noticed the harshness of modern culture or simply long for a more respectful world, this conversation will encourage you to be part of the change.

Episode Outline

  • 0:11 – The Loss of Civility
    Beth opens with a story about an elderly man’s reflection on how civility has declined over his lifetime and what that says about our modern culture.
  • 1:18 – Lessons from Pride and Prejudice
    Drawing inspiration from Jane Austen’s world, Beth highlights how respect, restraint, and manners once shaped meaningful human interaction.
  • 2:33 – Language and Modern Communication
    She discusses how casual profanity and coarse language have become normalized, reflecting a deeper erosion of mutual respect.
  • 5:23 – Civility in Politics and Social Media
    Beth reflects on how public discourse has turned hostile and how online anonymity amplifies disrespect and division.
  • 8:17 – Restoring Civility
    The episode closes with practical steps—mind your words, listen with humility, model good manners, and bring small courtesies back to everyday life.

Best Quotes from the Podcast

“Civility is about dignity. It is about recognizing the humanity of the person across from us, even when we disagree.”

 

“When we lose civility, we lose connection. We lose the ability to work together.”

 

“Civility is contagious. When one person chooses to be kind, respectful, and patient, it often diffuses tension and sets a new tone.”

 

“If you are raising children, teach them good manners. It is so rare now that they will stand out everywhere they go.”

 

“Civility is the art and act of caring for others.”

 

Click play to listen to the full episode

0 Comments

Submit a Comment

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

Beth Graham

Newsletter Subscription

Be the first to hear about the latest: